Gary Lee McNeal, known as “Papa,” “Grumpy Pants #1,” and “Grandpa Spiders,” passed away on February 24, 2026, in Scottsbluff, Nebraska, at the age of 72. His memorial service will be held at The Vine United Methodist Church at 2002 4th Avenue in Scottsbluff Nebraska at 2:00 P.M. on March 20th, 2026. Interment will follow at Fairview Cemetery located at 4109 5th Avenue. Following the burial Friends and family are invited to gather afterward at the church to celebrate Gary’s life.

Born on December 27, 1953, in Holdrege, Nebraska, Gary lived a life defined by hard work, generosity, and an unmistakable sense of humor.

Gary met the love of his life Deborah Burbach in Scottsbluff Nebraska. They married on November 26th, 1977. They celebrated 48 years before his passing. They had 4 children. Shannon Dean, Crystal Kay, April Lynn, and Christopher John.

After earning his GED, Gary dedicated over four decades to farming alongside Rod and Connie Hort of Torrington Wyoming. His strong work ethic and dedication to his craft were evident throughout his career. In 2021, he retired due to health concerns but continued to stay active. Gary found joy in repairing lawn mowers and tending to his garden—pursuits that reflected both his resourcefulness and love for nature. He also delighted in collecting eagles and Elvis Presley memorabilia, hobbies that highlighted his unique personality and interests.

Gary’s warmth and kindness left an enduring impression on everyone he encountered. Known for never meeting a stranger, he had the rare ability to turn acquaintances into friends with ease. Whether offering a helping hand or sharing a hearty laugh, Gary’s generosity and humor enriched the lives of those around him.

Gary is survived by his beloved wife, Deborah McNeal of Torrington Wyoming; Father-in-law John Burbach of Scottsbluff Nebraska; sisters Cathy Gomez of Mitchell, Nebraska; Sharon Raymond of Denver, Colorado; and Janet McNeal of Arizona; sons Christopher (Tonja) McNeal of Scottsbluff, Nebraska; Shannon (Treasa) McNeal; daughter April (Brice) Anderson; grandchildren Brianna (Tanner) Dykes, Austin Bayless, Justin Bayless, Hallie (Gabe) Priest, Alexis (John) McNeal, Cordy McNeal, Tatum McNeal—all of Torrington, Wyoming—Dakota (Alexis) McNeal of Canajoharie, New York; Carson (TshavNtuj) McNeal of Gering, Nebraska; Mackynzie McNeal and Paxton McNeal both of Scottsbluff, Nebraska; as well as great-grandchildren Aiden, Oaklyn, Matthew, Winter, Melanie, Alexandria, Jerald, Graycee, Kathryn Rose—and two eagerly anticipated additions to the family.

He was preceded in death by his daughter Crystal Kay McNeal; brother Dennis McNeal; parents LeRoy and Clarice McNeal; granddaughter Kathryn Elizabeth Bayless; Mother-in-law Mildred Burbach; brother-in-law Alfredo Gomez Sr. and Nephew Miguel Tirado.

Gary’s legacy of kindness and humor will forever remain in the hearts of those who knew him. May his memory bring comfort to all who shared in his life.

It is respectfully requested that in lieu of any flowers, memorials in Gary’s honor be made in care of his family to be designated at a later date. Online condolences may be made by viewing Gary’s memorial page at www.bridgmanfuneralhome.com. Bridgman Family Funeral Home and Cremation in Scottsbluff is entrusted with arrangements.